On Saturday I attended E and L's end-of-the-school-year performance. The three-hour performance included songs and skits in Korean, English, and Chinese, drum and xylophone performances, and taekwondo and tumbling demonstrations. The kids did a super job, but it sure seemed like overkill for these 3- to 6-year-olds. Because of the dim lighting and the limitations of my little point-and-shoot camera, my photos of the event didn't turn out too well, but this one of E is my favorite, a little girl in a blur of motion:
Today I took E ice skating. We had been skating once before. She loved it, and I told her then that we'd go again someday. Days get busy, though, and almost 10 months have gone by, so on Sunday, the two of us headed off to the rink. H-k was with us the last time we went, so she bought the tickets and did all the talking. This time, the responsibility was on me. I didn't think it would be a problem negotiating admission and skate rentals, but since the last time we were there, the ice rink installed automatic ticket machines in place of the helpful people in the ticket booth. There's a pretty good chance that people in a ticket booth speak a little bit of English or might understand my little bit of Korean. An automatic ticket machine, on the other hand, isn't quite so flexible. It stretched my Korean to its limits, but I was able to purchase the right tickets for admission and skate rental for one adult and one child. I consider it a success.Little E did a fantastic job on the ice. This was only her second time skating. She went from depending entirely on me to keep her balance and support her weight to inching along the wall to skating holding my hand to even venturing a few feet on her own. H-k and I had thought that 1 or 2 hours would be plenty of time on the ice, but at the 2 hour mark, E was still having a blast and wanting to stay, so we called H-k to check in and skated for another hour. When we took a break at the end of the third hour, E was adamant that she wanted to skate some more. In the very same breath, she started to doze off on the bleachers, still wearing her gloves and skates. I told her I thought it was time to go home and see what her parents and sister were up to.
"No," she said, "one more time ice skating."
"Not today," I said. "I'm sleepy, too."
"I'm not sleepy," she said with a yawn. "I'm happy."
"I'm happy, too," I replied as I helped her take her skates off. I promised her we'd go again, without quite so much time between outings.
We walked hand-in-hand back to the locker room, returned our rental skates and helmets, retrieved our backpacks, and caught a cab back to her apartment. I hadn't even finished telling the taxi driver where to go when she fell sound asleep. When we arrived at her apartment building, I had to carry my sound-asleep 5-year-old ice-skating friend inside.
It was a special afternoon, but I'm really feeling the strain this evening--not your typical ice-skating strain, which is usually in the ankles and legs, but a strain that's new to me, that of teaching a 5-year-old to skate. It's all in my back, shoulders, and arms. It's the strain of not being concerned so much for my own weight and balance as hers. I don't like the feeling--it hurts--but on the other hand, I don't mind it quite so much. However, now that she has a feel for her feet on the ice, I'm going to let her do more of the work next time.







They had a lot of outdoor activities and demonstrations because of the holidays, including traditional Korean games and music.

After visiting the museum, I walked past the Anapji ponds to Gyerim, "Chicken Forest." According to legend, one night in 65 CE, King Talhae heard a rooster crowing from this grove of old Chinese elm trees. He sent his prime minister to check it out. The prime minster found a gold box hanging from a tree and brought it back to the palace. They opened the box and found a baby boy. King Tallhae didn't have a son, so he adopted the boy and named him Alchi, which meant "young child" in the Silla language. Alchi was never king, but his descendants ruled continuously from 356 to 912 CE.
From Gyerim, I walked past more burial mounds, with the spiritually significant Namsan in the background.
From there I visted Cheomseongdae. Built during the reign of Queen Seondeok (632-647 CE), it is one of the oldest structures in Korea. Historians believe it's a star observation tower, and the number and position of the stones are believed to represent seasons, zodiac figures, and positions of certain stars.
In the park adjacent to Cheomseongdae, the Silla Culture Experience Center was sponsoring a kite festival. I stood around and watched for a while and then saw the table where people from the center were writing kids' names in Chinese calligraphy on paper kites that had a rubbing of the Chinese zodiac character for their birth year on them. I decided to buy a kite as a souvenir to take home. I told them I needed a monkey kite, but the old man doing the calligraphy couldn't understand my name and walked away. At first, the other people working at the table wanted me to write my name on my kite, but I told them no, so another volunteer wrote it in Korean and English for me. I intended just to take it home with me, but as I soon as I held it, with the ink from my name still wet, the wind caught it, and I couldn't resist. I spent the next hour flying kites in the park with about 50 other people. It was one of my very best Korean experiences.
By the end of the day, I was very tired and very cold. I think I'm still a little sick from a couple weeks ago. There was still a lot more I wanted to see in Gyeongju, but I just didn't feel that I had enough energy for another day. I went to the bus terminal at 6:00 and was able to change my ticket to a bus that was leaving for Seoul immediately. Sitting on the bus, I was a little worried that I would be disappointed by my decision to go home early, but now that I'm home, ready to sleep in my own bed tonight, with absolutely no plans for the next two days, I'm very happy. I feel like I'll need a couple days of rest before I'll be ready to deal with kids again.

From Tumulus Park, I caught a bus, hoping to go to the Gyeongju National Museum. However, by the time the bus got out to the museum, it was only open for another 45 minutes. The bus was bound for the temple Bulguksa, 16 kilometers from the city. Even though I had planned to spend most of tomorrow at the temple, I decided to stay on the bus and do a reconnaissance for tomorrow. It was almost sunset, and the light around the temple was so pretty that I went in and stayed until the temple closed an hour and a half later.
The Dabotap pagoda, constructed of granite around 750 AD, with the main temple hall in the background.
Tiled roofs of the temple buildings.
Gwaneumjeon, my favorite of the buildings at the temple, is a shrine dedicated to Avalokiteśvara, the Boddhisatva of Perfect Compassion. In Mayahana Buddhism, a boddhisatva is a person who has already achieved enlightenment but who chooses to use his or her wisdom to help others. Avalokiteśvara made a vow to listen to the prayers of all people experiencing difficulty and postpone his own buddhahood until he has assisted every being on earth. I found this story very moving and not unlike my own understanding of Christian compassion. I stood by the side doorway for a while and watched a family saying their prayers. Unfortunately photography was not allowed inside the shrine. The boddhisatva figure and mural in the background were beautiful.
The decorations near the roof of Gwaneumjeon
Late-afternoon winter light shining on the temple buildings
It's no longer the year of the pig, but they didn't have a rat statue out yet.
The staircases that lead up to the temple's inner courtyards. Symbolically, to go up the staircases is to leave the secular world and enter the spiritual world of Buddha, but the staircases have been closed since 1973 to protect them.
From Bulguksa, I took the bus past the Bomun Resort area and went back to town. Most restaurants were closed for the holiday, but I picked up some "street food" for dinner from a woman selling things from a cart on the sidewalk. Then I went back to my yeogwon to write. I'm very tired tonight. The combination of traveling, cold air, lots of walking, and not quite feeling well are taking their toll on me. I think I'll go to bed early tonight.
The teams enter the stadium
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The Korean team celebrating the first goal of the game
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First thing in the morning I'm off to Gyeongju, the ancient capital of the Silla dynasty, about 4.5 hours southeast of Seoul. I'm a little nervous about traveling within the country at this time because most Koreans return to their hometowns for the holiday, creating massive traffic jams throughout the country. Nothing like what's going on in China right now but still not a lot of fun. Train tickets were all sold out, so I'm going by bus. Hopefully I'll be back Saturday evening, having soaked in my fill of old Korean history and culture. More later.



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After classes were over, K, M, and T took a guys' night out and went to see Sweeny Todd. Catherine and I had dinner together and then went over to H-k's for a girls' night in. I'm really impressed by how much English E and L picked up while they were in England this month. It's amazing how quickly young children learn. L kept saying "Just a minute" and "There's something interesting in here." E informed me that she sometimes calls me "Daddy" by mistake. I was definitely able to have better conversations with them in English than before their trip. We had fun reading stories, playing with stuffed animals, and wearing plastic tiaras. T, K, and M returned, and we all sat around the kitchen table talking. It was a nice evening, and I'm glad to have good friends.





